BDSM test – koliko odstupate od „normalnog“?
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Perverzija, parafilija, devijantno seksualno ponašanje – jesu li to termini koji polako odumiru?
Temelj BDSM-a leži u parafiliji – seksualnom uzbuđenju uzrokovanom nečime što nije striktno seksualne prirode, tj. uzbuđivanje uzrokovano nečime što nije uobičajen seksualni čin. U okviru BDSM-a klasičan seksualni čin opisuje se terminom „vanilla“. Sve ono što nije „vanilla“ može se smatrati sklonošću BDSM-u.
Ova kratica nastala je objedinjavanjem sljedećih riječi: Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM). Mnoge od ovih sklonosti u društvu se još uvijek smatraju neprirodnim seksualnim ponašanjem, a oni koji ih prakticiraju često to prešućuju i najbližim prijateljima. Zašto je to tako? Vjerujemo li da smo doista psihički bolesni ako nas takve stvari seksualno uzbuđuju i prešutno odobravamo hipotetsku osudu naše okoline?
Prisjetimo se: prije samo malo više od sto godina, žene čija je seksualna potreba bila jača od onog što se tad smatralo uobičajenim (seks isključivo u braku, bračna vjernost) smatrane su nimfomankama i nerijetko bile slane na liječenje u institucije. U isto to doba, Oscar Wilde je završio u zatvoru zbog spolnog općenja s drugim muškarcem (koje se tada nazivalo sodomijom i u Engleskoj se kažnjavalo smrću sve do 1861. godine). Ta ista „sodomija“ nekoliko desetljeća kasnije iz društva se otklanjala malo sofisticiranijim putem – „liječenjem“ elektrošokovima, a ukoliko ni dugotrajna primjena te, tada popularne terapije, nije uspjela, primjenjivala se lobotomija.
Možda je potrebno opet preispitati granice „normalnog“. Volite lijepa, mala, ženska stopala? Uzbuđuje li vas kad vas netko zaveže ili vas uzbuđuje tuđa kontrola? Uzbuđuju li vas starije žene? Maštate li o mladom ljubavniku kojeg ćete šetati po stanu na vodilici?
Možda ste vi jedan od tih koji šute jer se boje društvenog izopćenja. Možda su i vaši prijatelji ti koji šute pred vama i međusobno se jedni drugima smješkate i razgovarate o kuhanju ili nogometu.
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Autorka: Miss Claw
Autor ovog posta je:
Miss Claw
Želela sam da sa vašim mnogobrojnim čitaocima podelim svoja BDSM iskustva i razmišljanja na neke teme koje će vam sigurno biti interesantne.
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Evo rezultata BDSM testa administratora sajta tomiradi.com i nadam se da će u komentarima biti mnogo rezultata čitalaca. Pozivamo vas sve da rešavate test i postavljate svoje rezultate u komentar na tekst 🙂
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
89% Non-monogamist
75% Experimentalist
68% Sadist
63% Dominant
63% Exhibitionist
63% Primal (Predator)
63% Voyeur
59% Bondage Giver
58% Brat Tamer
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
100% Submissive
100% Masochist
100% Slave
100% Bondage receiver
92% Degradation receiver
81% Experimentalist
68% Primal (Prey)
57% girl/boy
51% Pet
42% Brat
39% Ageplayer
24% Non-monogamist
22% Vanilla
21% Bondage giver
21% Switch
11% Exhibitionist
9% Sadist
8% Daddy/Mommy
1% Degradation giver
0% Dominant
0% Master/Mistress
0% Brat tamer
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Owner
0% Voyeur
0% All-Rounder
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=728162
Bilo bi lijepo da i ja kao autorica stavim svoje rezultate 😉
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
100% Primal (Predator)
89% Dominant
80% Bondage Giver
80% Primal (Prey)
79% Daddy/Mommy
75% Voyeur
74% Brat Tamer
68% Experimentalist
66% Non-monogamist
63% Exhibitionist
45% Degradation Giver
45% Master/Mistress
38% Pervert
33% Sadist
9% Brat
8% Switch
4% Masochist
4% Submissive
4% Vanilla
0% All-Rounder
0% Bondage Receiver
0% Degradation Receiver
0% Girl/Boy
0% Slave
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
88% Primal (Prey)
87% Submissive
86% Dominant
85% Primal (Hunter)
85% Pet
77% Switch
75% Slave
73% Master/Mistress
72% Masochist
67% Brat
66% Bondage receiver
63% Sadist
57% Bondage giver
54% Brat tamer
53% Owner
53% Voyeur
52% Vanilla
50% girl/boy
47% Experimentalist
40% Ageplayer
35% Daddy/Mommy
30% Degradation receiver
18% Degradation giver
16% Exhibitionist
16% All-Rounder
4% Non-monogamist
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=740162
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 96% Switch 95% Degradation receiver 93% Submissive 91% Voyeur 89% Experimentalist 87% Masochist 86% Slave 83% Exhibitionist 80% Dominant 76% Bondage giver 73% Degradation giver 71% Non-monogamist 66% Primal (Hunter) 62% Primal (Prey) 61% Sadist 57% Brat tamer 52% Master/Mistress 38% Brat 30% Owner 20% Pet 15% girl/boy 14% Ageplayer 14% Vanilla 14% All-Rounder 13% Daddy/Mommy See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=741191== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 99% Bondage receiver 96% Switch 95% Degradation receiver 93% Submissive 91% Voyeur 89% Experimentalist 87% Masochist 86% Slave 83% Exhibitionist 80% Dominant 76% Bondage giver 73% Degradation giver 71%… Čitaj dalje »
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
98% Experimentalist
95% Non-monogamist
92% Submissive
91% Slave
86% Primal (Hunter)
74% Degradation receiver
74% Pet
70% Exhibitionist
70% Sadist
60% girl/boy
59% Bondage receiver
58% Switch
57% Voyeur
54% Primal (Prey)
50% Dominant
47% Brat tamer
44% Bondage giver
44% Degradation giver
40% Masochist
39% Brat
37% Daddy/Mommy
37% Ageplayer
31% Master/Mistress
27% Owner
2% All-Rounder
0% Vanilla
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=755132
Da se i ja upišem 🙂
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
96% Dominant
91% Rigger
86% Master/Mistress
86% Switch
85% Experimentalist
84% Non-monogamist
78% Primal (Hunter)
74% Owner
69% Sadist
63% Brat Tamer
62% Degrader
60% Voyeur
51% Rope Bunny
47% Exhibitionist
41% Vanilla
36% Submissive
28% Daddy/Mommy
18% Masochist
13% Primal (Prey)
11% Ageplayer
11% Degradee
10% Slave
9% Brat
3% Girl/Boy
2% Pet
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1595064
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Submissive
91% Primal (Prey)
88% Pet
81% Rope bunny
62% Exhibitionist
59% Slave
57% Brat
48% Vanilla
32% Girl/Boy
31% Voyeur
27% Degradee
23% Experimentalist
16% Masochist
13% Switch
8% Dominant
8% Primal (Hunter)
7% Ageplayer
7% Rigger
6% Master/Mistress
3% Non-monogamist
3% Owner
1% Brat tamer
1% Degrader
1% Sadist
0% Daddy/Mommy
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
96% Experimentalist
95% Voyeur
93% Exhibitionist
92% Switch
86% Primal (Prey)
82% Primal (Hunter)
81% Dominant
80% Rigger
77% Ageplayer
75% Masochist
75% Submissive
74% Brat
71% Degrader
71% Girl/Boy
70% Brat tamer
70% Master/Mistress
68% Non-monogamist
68% Rope bunny
67% Vanilla
65% Daddy/Mommy
65% Degradee
65% Sadist
48% Slave
47% Owner
13% Pet
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
85% Primal (Prey)
82% Submissive
81% Brat
78% Girl/Boy
66% Degradee
66% Masochist
65% Daddy/Mommy
65% Primal (Hunter)
65% Pet
64% Vanilla
62% Switch
59% Ageplayer
57% Master/Mistress
57% Sadist
54% Degrader
54% Rope bunny
51% Brat tamer
50% Owner
50% Slave
47% Dominant
37% Voyeur
35% Rigger
34% Experimentalist
25% Exhibitionist
15% Non-monogamist
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
88% Voyeur
76% Degrader
56% Dominant
48% Master/Mistress
47% Submissive
47% Vanilla
45% Primal (Hunter)
44% Owner
44% Rigger
42% Daddy/Mommy
41% Primal (Prey)
40% Sadist
37% Exhibitionist
35% Brat
30% Slave
27% Pet
25% Non-monogamist
20% Experimentalist
13% Masochist
10% Degradee
8% Boy/Girl
7% Ageplayer
0% Rope bunny
Results Summary (taken 2019-01-11)
100% Owner
100% Dominant
100% Degrader
100% Rigger
100% Master
86% Daddy
78% Age-player
62% Sadist
69% Primal (Hunter)
57% Exhibitionist
37% Non-monogamist
35% Voyeur
36% Brat tamer
28% Experimentalist
7% Vanilla
3% Primal (Prey)
3% Boy/Girl
2% Pet
1% Rope bunny
1% Submissive
1% Masochist
1% Switch
0% Slave
0% Degrade
0% Brat
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Exhibitionist
100% Voyeur
100% Experimentalist
100% Non-monogamist
97% Primal (Hunter)
96% Degrader
94% Degradee
92% Master/Mistress
91% Dominant
69% Rigger
66% Owner
62% Sadist
59% Switch
54% Submissive
52% Slave
43% Brat tamer
43% Daddy/Mommy
39% Vanilla
25% Pet
23% Masochist
16% Boy/Girl
13% Brat
7% Rope bunny
3% Primal (Prey)
2% Ageplayer
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 97% Degrader 94% Switch 93% Dominant 92% Submissive 91% Master/Mistress 86% Rigger 85% Degradee 84% Owner 83% Masochist 82% Slave 81% Brat tamer 78% Primal (Hunter) 77% Sadist 74% Voyeur 72% Rope bunny 69% Experimentalist 66% Brat 62% Primal (Prey) 53% Exhibitionist 51% Pet 47% Non-monogamist 30% Boy/Girl 28% Daddy/Mommy 24% Vanilla 15% Ageplayer == Results from bdsmtest.org === Results from bdsmtest.org == 97% Degrader 94% Switch 93% Dominant 92% Submissive 91% Master/Mistress 86% Rigger 85% Degradee 84% Owner 83% Masochist 82% Slave 81% Brat tamer 78% Primal (Hunter) 77% Sadist 74% Voyeur 72% Rope… Čitaj dalje »